Here are some interesting business articles that address the different skill sets and career development issues in simple terms.
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Article 1: Are Leaders made or born? Article 2: Personality Development for All
Article 1: Are Leaders made or born?
Most of us wanted to be leaders at some point in our lives. Being the boss is a form of being a leader. Some of us succeed while others wonder what leadership skills they are missing in order to become a leader in their filed. Leadership is more about your behavior and born-characteristics first and your gained leadership skills second.
The best way to understand the leadership skill is use an example. Think of the world known leader: Mr. Nelson Mandela for example. The people of South Africa followed Mr. Mandela because they trusted and respected his leadership skills. Mr. Mandela did not have his leadership skills sharpened at Harvard University. He was a born leader who cared for his own people’s freedom.
He exhibited compassion, honesty, determination, courage, commitment, integrity passion, confidence, and wisdom. He had the Charisma to be a leader or was born to be a leader.
Most leaders similar to Mr. Mandela didn’t seek a career in leadership. They just became “the leader” because their behaviors are the ones of a born leader.
If you were not born to be a leader, you still can be one at your field of expertise. All you need is to have your leadership skills developed to be able lead. If you cannot build your leadership skills, then simply don’t lead, just follow.
Leaders’ main task in life is to achieve a goal that they very much believe in. This could be part of their ideology that they were raised memorizing or inspired them during their livelihood.
As a leader need to know what is the goal of your mission and plan to achieve it. You need someone to help you out. You need to build a committed team who believes in these same goals. Leadership is all about leading a group of people: Team work.
As a leader, you need to lead this team by showing your leadership skills compassion, integrity, honesty, humility, determination, courage, passion, confidence, commitment, wisdom and expertise.
To be able to lead a team, you have to be very honest with yourself. What I mean by this is that you have to know your strengths and weaknesses. Your threshold to manage people, your ability to be compassionate and your will to listen to them. Learn from your own team. They will teach you more about yourself than anyone else.
Personality is our psychological behavior that affects the way handle people around us and the situations we encounter in life. You hear the term; he has a cool personality or he has a high temper personality. Both descriptions attempt to describe the person’s interaction with people and situations.
In order to decide on the best way for personality development is to understand what determines our personality in general. In line with this site’s way, we will avoid the theories and academic jargons.
Our Personality is decided by three main factors:
Heredity of our genes Our Environment The Situation we handle.
Let’s us drill down a little bit.
Heredity of our genes refers to how we were born. The genes we inherit from our biological parents play a big role in our personality and our personality development. Our physical facial attraction, gender, muscle, reflexes, energy levels, hair are all decided in the chromosomes of our genes.
Our Environment
It is not surprising that the cultures that we grow within play a big role in our personality and personality development. Think of yourself as an example. If you grow in a religion related culture, your principles in life would be different to a person who grows up in an non-religious culture. Your principles, ideology and way of dealing with other might follow what your religion teaches you.
This is different if religion is not part of your culture where you tend to gauge right and wrong based on other factors that are taught in religions. An interesting theory of personality development shows that the first born child in a family is more concerned with social acceptance, more ambitious, more hardworking, more cooperative, more dependent, more prone to guilt feelings, prone to anxiety, and less aggressive that the second and third child of the same family. This is another evidence of the effect of our environment on our personality development.
You would also notice a certain behavior associated with certain cultures and nationalities.
The Situation we handle
The above two factors of our personality equation might give “stereo typing” people a breathing space. However, it is not meant to should they consider the third factor in our personality development; the situation we handle. This is because no matter what is the culture you were raised within and the genes you have, you personality development can improve if you handle the situation in a well educated manner. By this we mean that no matter who you are, you can be trained to handle the same situation in the same way that another person who has different genes and cultural background handles the same situation.